1 John 5:14-15 says:
This is the confidence we have in approaching God: that if we ask anything
according to his will, he hears us. And if we know that he hears us—whatever we
ask—we know that we have what we asked of him.
What does this mean?
If we were to dissect the verse, we would have more questions than the obvious one of why do we not get everything we ask for. Why? Well, for one reason we often ask with selfish, impure motives. We want a blessed life without pain and/or little adjustments. However, God listens and hears with such a greater knowledge of us than we know how to pray.
A few years ago, I prayed for something that was fully in line with God’s will…the restoration of my family. I prayed consistently for many years, fully knowing that God was on my side and that He heard my prayer. Then one day, He answered in a way that simply did not make sense. Certainly, it was not His will that my family be broken apart. Certainly, it wasn’t His plan or “according to His will” that we were not brought back together. Of course not. He did want that, but He knew the future. He knew what life had in store for me. He knew how He wanted to use my life. He knew where He wanted me to be broken and become more dependent on Him.
What is the purpose of prayer? To bring us more fully and more deeply into relationship and alignment with our Creator, Maker, Friend, Savior. When we can get to the place that prayer is not about what we want, but that we want what God wants for us we begin to see a new kind of transformation taking place in us.
Prayer is not about changing God or changing God’s mind, but for us to be changed and perhaps even have our mind changed to desire more for ourselves than what we could possibly desire on our own. Imagine praying “according to God’s will” and His best for us, having the kind of faith that believes our God is
willing, capable, and ready to bring us “exceedingly and abundantly more than what we could ask or think?”
As much as I have resisted that kind of faith, I am forever grateful that God knew best. As I prayed for what I wanted (and it was good), God heard so much more from the cry of my heart. I can say with confidence that when I bring my requests before Him, He hears, listens and responds and gives me more than I could imagine. I want to want what God wants.
posted by:Glenda Harr
Director of Women's Ministries & Assimilation